If you ask a Balinese what he does, he will proudly answer, I am a Baris dancer, or I am a mask maker. If you persist and ask again, No I mean how do you get your rice? He loses interest, his voice drops, he may turn away, deciding this is a pretty boring conversation. Oh that, he will say. ~ Learning by Heart (Corita Kent and Jan Steward)

What do you do?